教会男孩儿

爸爸在书房教育儿子：It's not our place to be judge and the jury, so in the future， just judge!牧师其实也很孤独，在Orel去他家找他时他说：Company isn't an interruption, just an occasional reminder of my involuntary solitude.爸爸对友谊的见解：Friendship is a complicated headache, but it's ultimately worth it.爸爸对生活不满天天喝酒麻痹自己，有集他对Orel说：Lying to yourself, one of the best survival tactics I know.印象比较深的一次爸爸跟儿子在study里的对话

–" Drinking on a daily basis is not the only way to be an adult."–" Well, I tried not talking about my feelings too."–" Son, behaving like a grown-up is many things. First and foremost, it means doing things that you hate doing. "–" Like what pop?"–" Well, like dealing with people who make you unhappy, being stressed about things you have no control over and working soul-numbing jobs."–" Oh!"–" Then, gradually, as we endure these hardships and accept them as normal, that's when we finally earned the right to get drunk and be emotionally distant from our families. "–" Just like my father, I love you dad."–" I'm hungry too, let's go eat!"